Tuesday, September 13, 2005 at 11:11 PM
forgive and forget
someone once explained to me the meaning of forgiving and forgetting. its forgiving the person for what he/she has done and forgetting the wrongdoings. not forgetting the person like many thought so. i always believe in forgiving and forgetting cos it would make one a happier person and i dont benefit from hating someone.just cant understand why some people has to harbour on the past. whats past has passed. get a life and move on. people make mistakes and learnt from them. everything that has happened is an experience and these experiences would mould us to be a better and stronger person. so im grateful to all that has left footprints in my life.no one is perfect and no one is sinless. everyone sin. probably not everybody think so but at least for me. i make mistakes and i learnt from them. im sorry to those i have done wrong to and i would make up to them if i could. at the same time i would forgive those who has done wrong to me. sometimes its my naiveness and gullible that caused the trouble. it takes two hands to clap.well. everyone has different perception and thinking. as i grow up. my perceptions and thinking seems to differ that of many family members and friends. hence the arguements and quarrels. if i think im right. i will be stubborn and stick to my point. but if what my family or friends say make sense. i would just shut up.we cant satisfy each and everyone so as long as i know what im doing. i dont give a damn about what others may say. there are always people who hates you for the way you look. talk. behave. dress. just like me. few years back. there was this someone who i wasnt close to. he hates me for god knows what reason. i was rather affected by it then. but to think of it. as long as my conscience is clear. he can hate me for all he wants.people change either for the better or worse. as we broaden our horizon. most change for the better. i would want people to give me a chance to prove myself as i would for others. everyone deserves a second chance. but then again. some people would think. theres no point in giving a person a second chance cos he/she is not significant. then just be it. they can jolly well leave with the hatred for the rest of their life.
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